Being a Stepmum is harder than being a Mum...here's why.I want to preface this post by saying, I absolutely love my Stepkids and I wouldn't have my family any other way. Now I am a Mum to my own little one, I get it. I understand better what it's like for my husband to be away from my Stepkids for a week at a time. It must be agony. I can better understand his amazing tolerance and love for them. I thought I did before, but now I understand better. I first met them when they were six and three and I always thought that (among othe